Margo - posted on 02/12/2014 ( 8 moms have responded )
So here i am divorced myself. Putting myself thru college at 40 something. Working raising my child and staying at dads. Something we all agreed to. I'm rebuilding my life from scratch when along comes a seemly sweet old lady who is now after 5 months tearing family apart.
what do i do? My brothers and sisters agree. She is manipulating things and needs a reality check. She new what she was getting into. She hates me. I've done nothing but been nice. She has been left at the alter twice. My father will never marry her. I am earning my degree and she will do anything to pull him away from me. Either put me down humiliate me or ignore me. If I do she makes it an issue so I ignored it and do my thing.
my dad and I are on good terms. She always finds a way to get her digs in. Will walk out of the room when I am there. If I follow she will walk out and go into another room.
She will have my father go to bed early and watch ( olympics) if I join in watching the program.
If I'm speaking to him she will pull him into the bedroom and ask his advise on a dress to wear as if he has a clue on women's fashion.
It's bad it's ridiculous and I'm so embarrassed for her. She very Immature. I want my father to be happy but she is a mistake.
how do I approach it without hurting him?
I did think of hiring a nanny for after care a friend of mine his age she'd be awsome.
is that under handed?
Please advise. '