Mom rejected by adult child

Linda - posted on 12/29/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )




I am not sure if this is still a subject accepted by this site? I do want to have a place to speak of the pain with others having experienced it. I am also looking for hope and wisdom. I have no intention of ever giving up; but the thought that this will be experienced as pushy and disrespectful of my child's wish? Also, I do't know how to resume a relationship. My daughter refuses to do therapy. I know she says things that are far from true of me. What I did was bad enough: I failed to attune to her attachment needs. This is a terrible terrible things for which I am grievously sorry. I love my daughter. I do not like her disrespect. I do feel she manipulated me for money. It's not at all pretty this busuiness. I don't know what the best choice of action is. Of late I've sent her parcels. Little gifts, little remembrances that I love her. No grand gestures. She finds ways to put me down in this as well. I just don't understand it,

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