Marie - posted on 01/10/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )
Hi. For the past 6 years I've been dating someone I thought was wonderful. We traveled together, went out, spent every bit of time we had together. I have 3 children from a previous marriage and they adore him. He does all the things a father figure should and there is a great relationship there. Marriage was something we both talked about but wanted to wait since we both have been there and divorced. When I was a month pregnant, I found out that he's been married for ten years with a 8 year old. I feel the thing to do is leave, but I'm 4 months along and am concerned about being able to "make it" with 4 children. I don't want to break the bond my children game with him, but I want to be married to someone who can commit to me instead of waiting like my bf says and and we'll get married in two years.