Leticia - posted on 05/26/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )
I have a child, for years I have heard safety neglect and other reasons I refuse to make my child see her father for visit. I have sole custody. I never nmarried him. I actually had called it off even seeing him after 3 months, he wouldn't stop driving by my work, my home, calling. he came by once when I was in bed with migraine, my 12 yr old son answered door, he pushed his way past my son said he needed to see me, my son didn't know what to do and went to his room. The ex had his way, 4 months later I found I was pregnant, I didn't remember it actually, wrote it in diary and realized later. I didn't press charges, he would only deny and I was having a hard time already with blood pressure and other physical problems but I wanted to keep the baby, I felt against abortion. He was proved by state court he was father and to pay child support, no legal visitation was requested. I let him see the baby but now is 12 yrs old and understand more on law and refuse to make child go, she doesn't want to, I am knowing someday will have to tell her about what happened, he will deny I know, he denied it was his even till proven. I feel I am right in standing by her on this, she came home one day and said no more.