Renae - posted on 07/27/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )
OBVIOUSLY you love your 3rd child more than life and would not undo or take back having him/her now even if you could. But being honest, just from a technicality stand point was 2 somuch easier than 3 and what would you recommend to a mom who's torn on whether to stop at 2 or go for more?
I want more, I have always wanted 4-- so that my children have several siblings is the main reason. But I just can't imagine adding more work to my full and busy day and night as it stands already. Maybe it's because my 2 are both under 3 and both still in diapers, night wakings to feed baby etc.
but I'm feeling like the selfish thoughts of "if I have another that's an EVEN LESS chance I have of a good nights sleep. Or EVEN LESS chance of ever having time for myself and for hubby" I'm feeling like those thoughts are outweighing wanting more...... for the time being anyway.
My husband says he thinks I will want another once baby is older.
Anyway, what do you advise? Thanks! :))