Moms Fighting Howard County Court Corruption

Debra Lynn - posted on 04/07/2014 ( 52 moms have responded )

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Please join us as we fight child abuse of paternal alienation propagated by the corrupt judges and attorneys. The judges rulings have nothing to do with the best interest of the children. They are abusing children and destroying families further in divorce trials.

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Cassandra - posted on 05/08/2014

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I am one of the Howard County victims, if you aware of each states rules you can post an blog with legal proof. THEREFORE, USE CERTAIN LEGAL TERMS. THE PUBLIC NEED TO BE EDUCATED ON YOUR FREEDOM OF SPEECH. All records are public!!!!!! If you read the Rules of Cannons and the Lawyer Code of Conduct you have the rights to publically call out those who are being unethical. If you sit back and not say anything it will continue. I can only speak for myself------my case is unique and pending litigation. Word of advice!!! All courts have family maintenance plans that must be adhered to. You have rules and regulations.

Jodi - posted on 11/29/2014

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Actually, some of us know exactly what you are going through. You are going through exactly what thousands upon thousands of men endure every single day being alienated from their children. It's just that their plight is far more common, so nobody sees it as quite so tragic.

User - posted on 11/14/2014

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Cassandra, I am also one of Howard county victims. I spoke out about my experience, the ex attorney is claiming I am delusional. I was advised to get other's experiences that are similar to mine to show that I am not the only one. We can discuss confidentiality.

Can you help me? valarie.sophia@gmail.com

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 05/08/2014

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Holy crap, I do see a lot of ALLEGATIONS.

I see a lot of potential information for these people manning the blog to be prosecuted as well. I didn't think that one could legally post a web page full of assumptive allegations without full proof!

Wow...Goes to prove the adage: Just because you saw it on the internet does NOT make it true...

MFHCCC - posted on 05/08/2014

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Direct Post From MFHCCC:

To all who responded to this post please take the time to visit the MFHCCC Blog at Momsfightinghccc.com. MFHCCC is a movement. The Facebook page and website are there to bring awareness absolute noted corruption in the Howard County Maryland Court System. Howard County, Md is voted the second best place to live by CNN Money. Forbes voted Howard County one of America's richest counties in April 2014. Our county executive Ken Ulman is on the ticket currently running as Lt. Gov alongside Anthony Brown for Gov. Howard County is the shining star of the State of Md so yes, it does matter.

If you actually view the MFHCCC you will not just see blanket statements on a corrupt system. You will see the list of actual judges, attorneys, health professionals etc. These accusations are based on actual ethics violations etc. If you have an interest please take the time to visit the site and see this is a real problem that effects the entire country but MFHCCC is focused purely on Howard County for the time being because of direct proof via court records, filings, forgery's, perjury, non-disclosure, etc can be shown. There are also actions being taken that is not posted on the site for obvious reasons.

MFHCCC is not asking you to join. It's a Blog. Just making you aware. Understand that much of what occurs in court corruption is politically and financially motivated and if anyone says this is not possible in the courts then they are delusional and not living in the real world. We see things like this that seems unreal all the time. Please check out the recent documentary called Divorce Corp. Search the topic if it matters to you because it can happen to you in a flash. You never know who you are married to until it's time to divorce.

Please at least read the mission statement. This post is coming directly from the MFHCCC. Any posts of a personal nature on any social network using the term 'we' is false and not a representation of what MFHCCC is about. If you have any questions or comments please go to the site and click on 'contact'. That is the true connection to MFHCCC blog. No one else posting here speaks for or represents MFHCCC.

Hold your kids tight and give them lots of kisses. Thank you and Happy Mothers Day.

Moms Fighting Howard County Court Corruption (dot com)

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Niyati - posted on 10/21/2015

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Hi
Do u meet in Howard county
I want to join and meet moms who have been victim of Howard county court system
I am also one of these mom who is going through the channel if bureaucratic corruption
Nj
410 449 0088
Nj19pa@yahoo.com

Ameliarich - posted on 11/29/2014

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please ignore all the comments by people that are not supportive on here, they have no idea what us mother have and are continue to go through by these corrupt courts...sorry this has happened to you, and please god keep her girls safe...and help us expose the corruption..amen

Ameliarich - posted on 11/29/2014

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cassandra i am a victim from montgomery county, can you please email me i am curious who your corrupt judge is,..inthebeginningco@gmail.com

Ameliarich - posted on 11/29/2014

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i had a protective order from frederick md, where i live that he could not have any contact with the children , i also had a protective order.....sorry for the confustion...what that court and my ex are doing is alienating the children from me..and its sick mental abuse...i never kept them kids away to hurt him..i did everything by the book,..this court abuse that me and so many other mothers and children go through is heartache on a daily basis, every second my heart is broken ...how can us mothers protect our children when we cannot have any contact...its sick, woman in prison for murder see there children and and still have full custody when they get out..its crazy to take a child away from a good loving mother when all we are doing is protecting them...no child should see there father beat there mother and him say hes going to kill your mother..and that child is placed with the abuser..it wrong

Jodi - posted on 11/29/2014

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Ameliarich, if the protective order was for YOU, he was still entitled to access to his children. That's not corruption if the children were taken from you. You were alienating them because of your protection order. You had an obligation to find ways (through supervised contact) to allow them to have contact with their father.

Ameliarich - posted on 11/29/2014

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i live in maryland and this parental alienation crap happened to me and my poor children....when i had a protective order he could not have any contact with them when the did the emergency access motion switching custody to him...he has 7 county of neglect at cps, 73 cases on case search which include attempted murder, also most recent violating my protective order and attacking me inside montgomery county court house threatening to kill me and shoving me right in front of our two minor children which he plead quilty to and only received unsupervised probation...for violating a protective order...it is happening everywhere , and maryland is so corrupt...how can we file a class action law suite against the state? i did a freedom of information request and have documents that the court evaluator and the judge are receiving vendor payments which is mis use of federal funds..they will not close my case , i have no attorney and no money for a attorney, my ex owes me 50,000 in arrears of child support and they closed it last week, and i am still ordered to pay him...ha,,.i will sit my but in jail i will not pay him ever, ..and also they keep ordering me supervised visits because of the PAS, which is not even a legal mental disorder...i do everything they tell me and they keep making me come back to court for review hearings every several months and still same thing supervised visits...right by the court house, when me and my ex are both residents of frederick county, i have lived here three years and they will not transfer the case, also they will not use the visitation house here in frederick, thats because they want the grant money..it is sickening what is happening to our poor children and the woman that are behind this are nothing but pure evil..no regard to children...can any moms in maryland please email me @ inthebeginningco@gmail.com, i have no others moms i know in maryland and we need to stick together for support /prayer and to have faith will will be able to expose this corruption..we also need to sue the state of maryland...this state is recieving 50 millions yearly for this health and human fathers rights iniciative grant money..we have to do something,

Cassandra - posted on 06/17/2014

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PA is true and abusers are great at it. The courts in Montgomery county have allowed it in my case. Do you have anything going on in Montgomery County, if not, I have several items that fit the corruptions over here.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 05/08/2014

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I still find no evidence of equal treatment for fathers in the same situation. Until that happens in your little corner of the world, you're not going to receive much support.

RECOGNIZE that fathers are historically, and still treated worse than mothers in the family court system, and fight for equal treatment for BOTH parents regardless of gender, and I'll indicate support. Not until then, because you're not fighting for parental rights, you're fighting to make a biased system more biased.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/14/2014

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I still am laughing at the Chicken Little tactics of "every american family is in danger"...

Truth of the matter is, NOT EVERY FAMILY is in danger, only those families who are comprised of adults who cannot BE adults, and feel that they must alienate the other parent.

Truthful statements get a cause so much further than scare tactics.

Angela - posted on 04/14/2014

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Debra, are you posting from the general perspective that any member of the public might have, and commenting on the corruption that goes on in courtrooms that decide on child custody arrangements? Because this seems to be the perspective that Jen Goodwin has taken.

Or are you commenting as a "wronged parent"?

You're not really telling us much .....

Jodi - posted on 04/11/2014

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No-one here is saying every child doesn't have the right to both mum and dad, but generally there are reasons why a court will stop access of one parent or the other. You still have not disclosed what those reasons are that were given. If you want us to be aware, you need to disclose all relevant information, not just the information you want use to know. It DOES actually make a difference as to WHY the ruling was made, because sometimes, some children are better off without one parent in their life, depending on the circumstances. So what were yours?

Jodi - posted on 04/09/2014

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No, not angry :) But I AM seeing a lot of bitterness on your part. It isn't particularly becoming. There are reasons you didn't get visitation. You are refusing to give us the reason that was given for that happening. That's fine, avoid the questions. But the fact is that most times a parent loses all visitation rights to a child, it is because it is something they have done. Maybe it was the nasty private messages. As I said, you really are not coming across as a stable woman right now either.

With regard to your comments about child support and not being able to get a job, I am sorry to hear that. But there ARE two sides to every story - he could probably say you only wanted custody of the children so you could be supported by him. Mothers do that too you know, take advantage of the custody system to get the child support so they don't have to work.

Debra Lynn - posted on 04/08/2014

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Oh and i wrote private nasty texts to my ex, when i found out his nickname in the community was "pedifile dad"after he made sexual comments to 11, 13, and 14 year old girls who labeled him with this nickname running away from him..This affected my girls lives and the other girls ostracized them, yes i was mortified and livid. I found out 8 years later, he could have done anything to me, but when it affected them, i had had it. I was mortified and on my knees crying at him affecting and making my girls lives hell them not knowing why they couldnt make friends...

Debra Lynn - posted on 04/08/2014

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Angry cusp arent we? Attacking other women with why dont you get a job is callous. How about my ex physically assaulted me so bad while i was undergoing chemo treatments that he damaged me for life??? I was an architect, turned full time mom, i can never work again because of what he did to me.. Ive had countless tests and seen numerous docs, no one knows what an assault does to an already weakened body by 29 rounds of chemo and 17 surgeries.. Is that enough yet? It happens over and over again. Oh and not to mention he was getting bjs from a local real estate agent while i was in chemo treatments!! Keep judging, i can take it!!

Michelle - posted on 04/08/2014

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I'm glad I'm not in America, I'm safe from the drama's that you are having.
Yes I have a friend who has had her children taken away but she knows it's because of her boyfriend but she still won't leave him. There is 2 sides to every story and it pays to get both rather than a 1 sided rant.
You can't believe everything written in the media either so unless you personally have spoken to BOTH sides then you don't know the whole truth.
Yes I know parental alienation exists and I don't condone it but like Jodi, 50/50 care is automatic here and I will never be in that position. I also don't need child support as I work and can provide for my children.

Jodi - posted on 04/08/2014

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I will also add that a bunch of you coming on here ranting and raving and insulting mothers for asking question is really not promoting your cause. If anything, it is harming it, because I am starting to wonder who may be the more stable parent.

Jodi - posted on 04/08/2014

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"only that the bread winning parent did not want to pay any child support to maintain the stability of the caretaker parent."

Wow. Child support shouldn't be about maintaining the caretaker parent. Get a freaking job. You are not obligated to be maintained by your ex even if you have the children. Yes, he should pay 50% of the costs of the children because they are 50% his, but maintain you? I don't think so.

"Get off these sticky sweet social media sites, and start figuring out your exit plan ladies, because you're not different, your next."

LOL, sweetheart, I will NEVER be in a situation like you. Why? Because firstly, where I live 50/50 custody is automatically assumed. Secondly because I wouldn't sit on my butt expecting him to support me through child support. In fact, I would agree to 50/50 custody, so there wouldn't be any need for child support anyway.

As I said. There is a reason you were not given visitation. None of you will say what those reasons were, even if they were false allegations.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/08/2014

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How do you presume to tell me that I 'support' parental alienation, when I very CLEARLY state that I do not?

Just because I don't automatically jump on your bandwagon? Is that it? Sorry, sweetie, but as I've very clearly stated, I've seen parental alienation from the side of the alienated parent. Don't presume to tell me what I do or do not understand, or what I do or do not support.

Clearly you are upset because we didn't all just automatically agree with you, and tell you "oh, yes, corruption is rampant these days". Well, I'm sorry, but I cannot agree with that. Because it is NOT rampant. And, if anything, courts are still biased towards the mother, although that IS being handled, somewhat.

Debra Lynn - posted on 04/08/2014

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Only enablers and supporters of parental alienation child abuse dont stand up against it, who dont get the whole cycle of abuse wheel.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/08/2014

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I'm not sure what you're trying to demonstrate with those particular charts, Debra. We've agreed that to a certain extent, parental alienation does happen.

However, there are two sides to every story, and, in your particular case, I'd really enjoy hearing from the other side. As I said, I reviewed the FB pages, as you requested, and I saw just as much alienation being performed by the parents that were protesting they were the ones 'alienated'...so I'd have to say, again, the street goes both ways.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/08/2014

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Well, I was posting @ Jennifer, not Jen Goodwin, but the sentiment remains.

Perhaps I'd be more willing to "believe" the hype, if it didn't seem that women expect to have full and total ownership of their children. Because, in the cases that I PERSONALLY am a witness to, the fathers who have been granted primary custody have well deserved that custody, and inevitably it's the mothers who've been reduced to partial custody, or in certain circumstances where more severe restrictions were warranted, visitation that come on to this board screaming about the 'injustice' of the 'american system'.

I advocate equality. NOT full custody for mothers simply by virtue of having given birth. There are simply some mothers who are not geared towards a custody situation.

And, I must say, after reviewing the FB page that the OP requested be reviewed, I see plenty of attempts at parental alienation on both sides there.

So, I will agree that IN SOME CASES, parental alienation is a valid complaint. HOWEVER, you will never get me to agree that it's a scourge that's taking down the very virtue of the 'American family'. Besides that, if people would think before they jump into a relationship, we wouldn't have the horrible divorce rates that we have, and this would be a moot point anyway.

Trust me. I'm well versed in parental alienation perpetrated by my stepdaughter's birth mother. If ever there were a biased system it IS the american system, in that it is still biased towards believing that mothers are the full time better caregivers.

Debra Lynn - posted on 04/08/2014

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Amen!! You get it!! I know we have an uphill battle to educate, and not just bury our heads in the sand because we dont want to know reality. I didnt know it was so prevalent until it happened to my kids, and it was too late. It was a slow devious calculated undermining process when i was undergoing chemotherapy for breast cancer,, If we can stop it from happening to more families and children, thank you!

Jen - posted on 04/08/2014

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Just so ALL is not lost - my point, is this.....

American families are in a crisis of epic proportions.

My research shows that womens inabilty to support each other is the reason the future of families is so grim.

Women need to join together, not judge and vilify based on assumptions.

Behaviorism 101.

Thank you for demonstrating this relevant point.

I did get too emotional in response to this forum, but its only because every American family is in grave danger.

the scary part, is parents dont even know, what they dont know.

So god bless you all, and may we all unite for the reform of families.

Jen - posted on 04/08/2014

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i do extend every effort to dumb myself down when necessary, but I can only lead you to the truth, i cant make you think. Sorry. On so many levels.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/08/2014

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Jennifer, just because we don't automatically agree with the post is no reason to spew vitriol all over the page, but I did enjoy laughing at your ridiculous responses!

Thanks for the great laugh. Perhaps, if your responses made sense, mine would be different, but as it stands...they're nonsensical on their own.

Jennifer - posted on 04/08/2014

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You checked case files in la la land? Or is that just a malicious judgment?

#knowtheissues

Jennifer - posted on 04/08/2014

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Where is your town? America? Post your address....we will come chat about your utopia.

Jennifer - posted on 04/08/2014

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You are absolutely right lady. Someone get this princess a prize.

I'm disgusted. You ladies are shameful.

American children are in danger. But women are so quick to dissent and attack each other.
Seriously, I think we should move the intelligent conversation to a more educated demographic. We will advise popsugar about the support women receive from you ladies.

See, women like the ones here, make me ashamed to be a woman.

The same, can be charged with the dangers our children face.

what you fail to see was a mother who is trying to educate you and other mothers of a very very serious an unexpected crisis that over two and a half million families nationwide have been victims of. The numbers speak for themselves there are far far too many people involved inthis type of dissolution of families for it to be just a specific demographic.

this is the last thing I'm going to say because I am a crusader for love and revolution but I will just say that this type of mentality that you ladies are exhibiting is the absolute demise of modern civilization end it really really makes me lose hope in humanity so maybe if we open her eyes and our minds NSYNC in a proactive way and act with love we can save the planet. Until then I'll leave you ladies to sit around and bash each other but I got a bunch of sisters and I got a raise up blessings

Jennifer - posted on 04/08/2014

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Then go to another community. That's the premise.

Honestly lady, what is your point?

My point, people like you, are destroying modern society.

But , luckily, I'm "for women and children," so we still have a chance.
J

Michelle - posted on 04/08/2014

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Like we have said: Maybe it is more common in your town, where I live it's very uncommon.
Why not set up your own community here for your little vendetta instead of taking up space on the welcome page. You don't seem to have a lot of support here.

Jennifer - posted on 04/08/2014

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The reason this practice is so widespread, is because of this.

Mom's reaching out to mom's for advice and support, met with suspicion, and lack of respect.
So, thank you ladies, for demonstrating the "how" in "does this happen"

We have become separate....and we are all pro family.

Get off these sticky sweet social media sites, and start figuring out your exit plan ladies, because you're not different, your next.

Debra Lynn - posted on 04/08/2014

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Good point it is parental alienation, (must have been autocorrect) it is happening to both parents, depending on which one has the money to pay for the best attorneys. We have proven criminal abuse of power and misuse of authority by the same judges and same attorneys they are in cahoots with. The patterns are obvious like cases in new jersey about 5 women who even got a judge disbarred. It doesnt matter specifically my case, it needs to stop. There are seven of us so far, whose cases were decided long before we went to trial. In every case the stay at home caring parent was thrown out of the home, and the children were given to the non caring most times narcissistic abusive, adulterer, illegal alien, greedy, proven criminal or alcoholic parent. It had nothing to do with stability, consistency and the best interest of the children. Evidence was fabricated and lies were told. It had nothing to do with truth, only that the bread winning parent did not want to pay any child support to maintain the stability of the caretaker parent. It is child abuse, no parent is perfect and every child should have both parents in their lives. This is the right thing to do, unfortunately now thousands of children are denied their loving caring parent who most times is the only parent who really and truly loves them. They are merely pawns used by the unhealthy parent to get back at the loving parent. Narcissist no conscience people are more prevalent today and as parents they are dangerous and abusive to their children. If you arent supportive of these thousands of fb sites to stop child abuse, clearly defined in the latest psychological manual, you dont get it. We have all been living through this hell for over 3 years, and no imperfect parent should be denied the rights to even see raise their children. Stopping child abuse is our goal.

Angela - posted on 04/08/2014

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OK - I've spotted what no-one else seems to have noticed ....

QUOTE: "Please join us as we fight child abuse of paternal alienation"

This poster didn't say PARENTAL alienation, the phrase used was PATERNAL alienation!

So .... is this poster a MAN??

Just to add, I have no idea where Howard County is in this world. I'm British myself, don't think Howard County is in the UK.

In many cases of parental/paternal (or even maternal) alienation, I'd say it's not the other parent or grandparents that have set this in motion with the children. It's often the parent him/herself.

Please post again to clarify your stance on this, OP. Are you a wronged father, a wronged mother or just an interested bystander?

Jodi - posted on 04/08/2014

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Do you make a habit of not answering the direct questions and calling people names?

No-one judged you, we simply asked a lot of questions. But you are hardly telling your story. If you don't see your children, there would be some sort of reason given. Judges will not alienate a parent unless there is a reason given and evidence. So answer the question. WHY were YOU given no visitation? And don't answer that it is because they are all corrupt, because THAT is not what is in the minutes of the hearing, I assure you. What evidence was brought against you. And is this because your ex husband is a lawyer?

Debra Lynn - posted on 04/07/2014

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Then you all are clueless to the facts and reality of these outrageous rulings which affect thousands of children, not in their best interests. Who are you to judge when the same exact judges hand innocent children over to criminals, greedy parents who dont want to pay child support. Psychiatrists say both parents to be involved in children's lives, not just the one who has the money to corrupt the courts. Our judges and attorneys are under criminal invstigation as are many others across the globe. Its the same judges and attorneys and countless families who are destroyed not only because of divorce but because parental alienation is accepted, which if you condone it, you are condoning child abuse. Shame on you!! There are thousands of facebook sites which illustrate this.do you research before you judge,

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/07/2014

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I agree. Most of the cases that I'm aware of (in this area, at least) have been fair. Its usually the parent who feels they were 'screwed' that starts hollering about 'corruption'.

And, having just read that same page...I wonder the same, Jodi.

Jodi - posted on 04/07/2014

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I agree that it happens, but there are ways to address the issue. I am just curious as to what has happened here, because I don't believe the system is corrupt. I believe some people feel wronged when it doesn't play out there way, but the chances that they have not done the right thing at some point in the custody battle is pretty high. I read this lady's facebook page, and I'll be honest, she doesn't seem to have the full dozen. Her children are older kids who appear to have chosen to remain with their father and not have contact with their mother. I'm just wondering what the ruling was and the evidence that was presented by the other party.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/07/2014

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Actually, I've only known of one case that didn't go as it should have, and in that one, the maternal grandparents played the system in order to keep the children from their father. AND, it didn't last much longer than it took to get a change of venue.

Jodi - posted on 04/07/2014

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I'm assuming you have NO contact with your kids because that's the way the courts ordered it? Are you sure you're not upset that it just didn't go your way?

Debra Lynn - posted on 04/07/2014

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Which is happening in england and france too, this is the beginning of a worldwide cause. It will be turned into a nonprofit against child abuse worldwide. Have you all not been following international news??? Concerning parental alienation and corrupt judges?

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 04/07/2014

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This is not the place to promote this. We are not in Howard county, we are international.

Michelle - posted on 04/07/2014

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This is an international site so getting people locally is a stretch. You would be better off starting a facebook page and sharing it among your friends.

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