Toshia - posted on 05/16/2012 ( 40 moms have responded )
I am 24 years old and before I had kids, my husband and I were ALWAYS having sex! ATLEAST twice a day, everyday. I even self pleasure at times when he was at work. Sex was a must for us. I got pregnant and then husband deployed to Afghanistan for 7 months. When he came back, after not seeing him for so long, of course we were back on our usual routine. But after i had my daughter i noticed my sex drive took a major fall back. We would only have sex about 2-3 times a week which i thought was because i was always tired and thought it was completely normal after just having a baby. Well i got pregnant again with my second daughter when my oldest was 6 months old. Again, after having her, i experienced the same symptoms and thought it was because i had my hands full with two girls. And i figured it would come back. Well my youngest is now 7 months old and i still have absolutely no desire to want to have sex or participate in any sort of sexual encounters. Not even the desire to self pleasure. But i dont get turned on like i used to, sex doesn't feel good to me anymore and i feel like its impossible for me to orgasm! I love my husband with all my heart and i feel so horrible for not wanting sex and when we do i hate that he knows its not enjoyable to me but i dont know why i am still like this! I dont have medical anymore so i can't turn to my doctors, so im asking you all! Have any of you experienced this? If so, how long will it last or what can i do?? We've tried watching porn, foreplay etc.. I feel so alone in this and i dont know what to do and i really dont want it to come between my marriage. Please moms, HELP ME!!