Carmen - posted on 12/12/2014 ( 15 moms have responded )
The first is that I regret my bad english .... I am not English speaker.
I am a single mother of 36 years old, and I have a daughter 12.
This week has been awful .... I will try to summarize:
I made some very serious mistakes regarding my daughter.
I have always believed in the effectiveness and the positive that is the spanking, always applying it correctly ritual, intensity and love, so my daughter, who is actually very good girl and mature, it has positive proof, but spanking is always the last option.
The theme is that last week won a good punishment, at least I think so .... but it turned out that my daughter had not committed that fault, and was punished unfairly for me.
She said it was not fair, it really has a great sense of justice, too ... and was relmante angry and disappointed me. This made me feel really bad.
Two days later, I fell asleep and was late to take my daughter to school and my job .... his look of disappointment was terrifying when he came out of the car.
When he reached home we speak, and told me that our family was hard spanking discipline method with my daughter .... and it was not fair that I make so many serious faults and nothing happened .. just an apology.
And I was disappointed me .... what broke my heart, because my daughter was right about everything.
And that is what I deserved to receive a very severe punishment, and they apply it, which is not normal for a daughter punish your mother, but it was necessary .... I think of all this.
And that would be something secret.
I am very ashamed .... I tell Adults are not punished, but is very sad and disappointed me because the values that attempt to instill, I do not follow.
To end the week, I had to go pick your musical instrument that was repaired, and bring it to class in the music school ... but I had so much to do that I forgot to do .... and my face daughter ... said it all ... told me to accept my punishment ..... immediately told him I was sorry, I had a bad week ..... and finally my black week, yesterday my car was out of gas .... and arrived late to her sport and coach reprimanded for tardiness my daughter .... she told him what happened .... but the coach did not believe.
My daughter has been all day without talking to me ... I'm really decpionada myself ... and I thought I deserve a severe punishment, and even strange that my daughter would be the best person to run it.
I do not know what to do ... I need help, tips, and whether some mother something happened and how it has acted.
Please ask sincere and serious advice relevant to my problem.