Unknown - posted on 03/24/2014 ( 11 moms have responded )
I have a problem with my child mother. I have a court order to see my kid but she denied me on my ffifth visitation. Do to me not knowing much bout father rights I listen to outsiders saying if you act like u don't want to be bother that's when she bring him around. Instead of doing my way in which it gotten me in trouble not thinking b4 reacting. And I tried it their way and its not what I really want. Not to fight fire with fire. We been to court has a restraining order on me which I don't blame her I wasn't normal person at that time. But she also put a restraining order on me and my son. I won that battle in court. I love my son both of my sons and she knows that but she use him to hurt me. It work at that time. But now 3 months has pass I didn't see him do to her action and cuz of the restraining order she try to provoke me on doing something so she can call the police and put me in jail. I stayed away cause of that but I miss my son so much. I even resigned from my job because we work together. She never ask for a penny even though I was doing for my son but doing the split up she didnt want no cash talking bout we don't need you. But once I quit my job and the court give me the order to see him so we exchanged the kid on the days it was order. After 2 visit she started to ASK for money she knew i wasn't working at that time so she started to threaten not to let me see my son if I don't give her money.. last time I went to go get my son I was with my 7 year old son. And that's when she flip out on me started cursing and trying to provoke me my oldest son started crying and I almost lost it myself but was more concerned about my son in tears good thing I chose not to react cuz I know I would be in jail do to violation of probation and restraining order. Hope it kind of sums up the story. I want to see my son I'm a smart person I have my old job back I'm heading in the right path. But I have no clue on getting my son or on how to handle this situation when the same ppl "cops" told me in the beginning I was doing it wrong" and now the same ppl "cops" telling me we can't do nothing for u. In
Which in a way they can't to some degree but I think they could...