Kimberly - posted on 03/18/2016 ( 7 moms have responded )
I've been with my husband for 8 years, we've never had a normal relationship since he is an addict. He's been in and out of rehab and jail. So I was extremely close to his parents and loved them more then my own. Once we found out I was pregnant, his mother made my life more difficult. My MIL decided to play games, she tried putting a girl that I did not get along with in college in his life. During my entire pregnancy my husband was in jail and his mom decided to pay for all of there calls and paid for her gas to visit him in jail. Well my pregnant self had no idea until my MIL made sure all my visits and phone calls were with her. While I was talking on my MILs phone to my husband, my MIL got a text message saying "I am going to go visit your son today." I asked my MIL what was going on and she acted like she had no idea and decided to tell her husband I attacked her verbally in her own home. Well I did not, and after that happened she decided to block my number and did not talk to me my entire pregnancy. She would see me at the grocery store and completely act like I did not exist. But she made sure she kept a strong relationship with my enemy in college, she invited her to her house to talk shit about me, went to her house to visit her, and talked to her all the time. While my husband was in jail, my MIL and enemy were putting so many things in his head that he decided to no longer call me. It was the worst feeling in my life. His mom was telling everyone he fell in love with her. Till this day I cant get passed why my MIL would do that to me. Well next story, I had my daughter and my MIL appeared in my life again. My husband got out of jail, we decided to get an apartment together. When my daughter was 5 months, my husband decided to leave to New Mexico to start a new life and go back to his old ways (using drugs). Well his mom told me in my face well I hope my son finds unconditional love and I will help him in anyway and walked away. Then my Father in Law decided to help me since his son was leaving his family hanging. My father in law paid for my last couple months of rent and my MIL decided to give him an ultimatum. She said either you pay her rent and I am divorcing you. My MIL put a restraining order on my FIL and filed for separation. She told my SIL if I go to her house she will call the police on me and wanted nothing to do with my daughter. She even decided to turn off my phone on her sons account and changed his number. Well her son decided to come back home, my MIL decided to stay married to her husband and acted like she did not hurt me in anyway. She would tell me things like send my grand baby my love, it would eat me inside every time. Well things were ok, she would act really fake towards me and acted like she would care. Well now her son is back in jail, I recently did not visit when she asked me to come over so her son can talk to me and they can visit with my daughter. Well since I did not go, she blocked my number. After everything she has done to me, she is going to block my number. This lady has done so many things to me, she wonders why I don't want to visit. The last time I stayed at her house, she decided to alarm her house and got all mine and my daughters stuff delivered to me at the restaurant we were eating at for lunch by her sister. I sent her a text and asked she did not want us in her house. Her reason was I am going through a lot. Then she told my PIL that it was due to her son and I fighting. We were both confused. Then when I bring up what she has done and how shes made me feel, she makes it clear that she has no time for my drama. Please help, I am having a really hard time. I've always gone out of my way for her to see my daughter but she has never made any effort to visit my daughter and only buys her gifts that she does not even need.