Trinity - posted on 04/24/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )
I have major issues iwth my in laws, specifically mother and brother in law. My brother in law is gay i don't mind this at all, however he is very nasty and bitchy, my MIL is exactly the same. My husband and i moved into a small house they own so we could save for our own place, i am thankful every day that they did this, but the live on the same piece of land, MIL is always coming over criticising everything, mainly that i have a cat who only lives inside, she thinks i should get rid of my kitty because of our child...the cat and my baby get along very well. When i go and see her she is just out right rude, she has called me fat whille i was pregnant and criticised me for not going straight back to work despite the fact she has not worked a day since giving birth to her first child 43 years ago. She tells me im ugly and that i was never welcome to join their family. My brother in law who is 25 and my in laws still pay for everything for him...including a new car and he doesnt even work, he takes issue with my husband (his brother) however instead of talking to my husband he yells at me and belittles me. I have had enough, my husband hates his family and while it is harsh we stay becuase cheap rent and more chance of saving for a house. What do i do, this is stressing me out, when i have spoken to MIL she gets angry and defensive and cries to evrryone that i am a horrible person, everyone is against us, my husband loves my family and so do i, but his family are just impossible HELP PLEASE!!!