mother in law and sister in law have turned on me help

Dorothy - posted on 09/09/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )




my mother in law and sister in law treat me like crap just recently they turned on me me and my husband have a 7yr old son my sister in law is always yelling at him she tryies to act like shes his mother and so does my mother in law I told my mother in law that I didn't like the way that my sister in law talks to him they both said that they wanted me to find another place to live they called me a two-faced backstabber and said that I was not wanted and I was not welcome they are also trying to keep me from making any parental decesions with my son I am so very hurt why would they do this to me please help


Michelle - posted on 11/23/2013




By the sounds of your post you live with your inlaws, is that right?
If so you need to get away and have your own family unit. Distance yourself from them and only see them at important times (birthday, Christmas, etc).
If you don't live together then don't see them as often.

Nadine - posted on 11/22/2013




Dorothy I think its quite clear you an yr husband need to make a executive decision together right now an distance yrselves from them. Not just for the both of you but yr son, do u really want him tht environment honestly an if yr husband isnt prepared to tht well he has to support u an you do it now, you tell those two vindictive intrusive an rude so an so's tht you have had enough of their crap an unless they keep their obnoxious an unwanted opinions to themselves regarding YOUR HUSBAND AND YOUR SON they have left you with no other choice but to stop them from visiting no if's an no buts Dorothy an not until u think them fit as a mother/grandmother sister/aunty will they b welcomed back. I can guarantee u tht until a drastic decision like this is done this situation will continue an if not get worse. You an yr husband deserve some damn respect from these people an if theyre not willing to give it well u dnt need them in yr lives. Please be strong an stand up for you all :)


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[momoftwo] - posted on 11/23/2013




Yeah it's definitely time to move out so you three can be a family together. They should not be treating you or your son like that. You are his mom and no one should be yelling at him. Keep your distance from them once you leave.

SiMpLiCiTy - posted on 11/22/2013




My mother in law and sister in law are just as mean. Feel free to message me anytime, I'll give the best advice I can...

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