Gmegan14 - posted on 12/21/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )
My MIL is my babysitter since we can't afford nor trust a stranger to watch our baby. Lately I've had some concerns that my husband sees as minor issues i should let go. 1st I didn't want to start my baby on baby food until at least 5 months and at 3 months she decided it was okay to start giving it to him, which i believe was the cause of him developingg stomach issues and we had to play around with some formulas until we found a sutible one. then recently i said he couldn't have a candy cane and once i left she gave it to him (he is 6 months old now). Today, they went shopping no big deal just keep me in the loop, (when you leave, arrive, head home and arrive home) where she went it takes an hour to get there, I messaged her an hour and a half after she should have arrived to find out if they made, which they had thank goodness, then I had to message her again when I was fixing to leave work only to find out they were headed home as well. i recieved her text when they left house for the day tha's it, how would any of you handle this issue? I feel like if she cant take 30 seconds to keep me informed about the safety of my child then she shouldn't take him anywhere, she shouldn't act like it's a big deal being as she expect my husband and I to let her know when we get where we are going if it's further then an hour.