Mother in law Drama

Rosemarie - posted on 11/08/2012 ( no moms have responded yet )




Hi to all the moms. This is my first post here and I am looking for advice about my relationship with my MIL. I am at the point where I have not let her in my life or have any access to my son because she doesn't understand boundaries, I have explained and talked to her about it and still the same. I opened up to her many times to connect. Instead she swears and yells everyday at home, fights with everyone. Swears and threatens me in front of my baby and started accusing me of sleeping with her husband. So I cut her off my life but still comes to our house and I always lock myself in my room with my baby. Our living arrangement at home is my MIL got kicked out of the house, I live with my husband, our baby and his father. She comes here usually every weekend with some excuse just so she can have time with her ex-husband. I think I'm doing the right thing avoiding her so no conflict but I'm starting to feel like I have to give in because that's my husband's mom. I know she won't change and will continuously do whatever she's done before. Even if she apologized and was nice after, she will do the exact same thing based on my personal experience with her in the past. We can't really move out right now because money is tight but I have to talked to my husband about this many times and I'm not sure what the next step is

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