Mother in law - naked bubble bath

Viola - posted on 05/27/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Omg i feel like i'm going to loose it! We just bought our first house and are moving in two days so my ds was at my mil's on saturday and sunday so we could pack. We went over for dinner last night and she was like "we had a nice bubble bath today", which she had mentioned she did about a month before but i didn't ask for further details, perhaps subconsciously not wanting to know. But this time i said "were you wearing a bathing suit" and she said "oh no, he's too young and doesn't know anyways". He's 13 months. And i was like "I don't feel comfortable with that", and she blushed. That was the end of that. But i'm still pretty pissed since she thought it was okay for her to bathe naked wiht my son in teh first place. Wtf? It's so inappropriate. I told dh he's going to have to tell her that it's inappropriate too since she's demonstrated that she won't listen to anything i say, only what he says. Still, it makes me so mad. This is just one example in a long list of her clearly demonstrating that she has NO boundaries. It's infuriating. Urrrgh!

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Kathan - posted on 05/27/2013

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I'm with you on this one. Don't understand at all, but maybe she has her reasons behind it. Hopefully she will respect you and understand that you're uncomfortable. Maybe you need to be straight up with her and tell her that you don't want this situation to happen again and you're not ok with it.

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