Alyssa - posted on 06/28/2015 ( 9 moms have responded )
The title says it all.
I am aware I am not the only woman going through this.
My husband and I have been married for a short while.
Only one problem - He is a massive Mama's boy and I had no idea it was this bad.
His Mother is rude and disrespectful to me and my side of family. Yet my Husband does not stand up for me. She communicates through face book and text messages so he can read into it,
At our wedding she completely turned into the devil, she was rude to my friends and family. And her wedding speech was just about my husbands achievements - absolutely nothing about me. Because she was in a horrid mood she made the wedding about herself and her feelings. Husband forgave her the next day for that one. And blamed me for the way she was acting.
She constantly lets her son down with her negetive comments, even about his choices in life but yet he always reply's with a "sorry" or tells her how much he loves her and he will do better etc;
I think it is disgusting and very embarrassing.
I've spoken to him about this "issue" and he agrees with me and is aware of what she is like. I've told him she needs to go, He will lie and say he never hears from her, but the secret messages and phone calls when I am not around say otherwise.
Why is my husband doing this to himself? And why is he keeping it a secret when he talks to her?
I am 9 weeks pregnant with his child.
I feel like I don't even know who my husband is anymore. Need advice!!!!!!