Carolina - posted on 02/09/2015 ( 4 moms have responded )
Hi mommies I've been reading all pf your comments for a while trying to find answers to my own problem. My relationship with my inlaws has beed bumpy since my daughter now 2 years old was born. My MIL always wanted to be the center of attention would come visit every single day without announcing her visit would take the baby out of the house without asking for permission or even letting us know and would not give her to me if I asked to hold her because she was crying and this would go on for hours. These two years have been tough but I've reached a new low. Last week I said "mommy loves you" to my daughter and she responded no mommy doesn't love me daddy loves me granny loves me and grandpa loves me. (My MIL had visited the day before unannounced obviously) I thought that was odd so i asked whu do you think thos and she said: "granny told me" she kept repesting this and even went on to tell the nanny later that day. Three days later she said the same thing and then when i got the courage to ask her what else her granny said she answered: "that mommy is bad" I'm really worried my husband is very close to his familiy and we see them constantly. I'll appreciate anything you can tell me.