Monica - posted on 05/14/2012 ( 9 moms have responded )
Last night I checked my Daughter's Cell Phone which I periodically do just so I know she is not abusing it. I am paying for it. Anyways, I came across a Text conversation with her & her Dad's Girlfriend. My daughter texted her Happy Mother's Day!! I was shocked. The girlfriend responded saying Thank you sweetie, we'll see you next week.
Anyways, I had a Dad that had a girlfriend & eventually a wife & only later on in the relationship (about 10 years later) did I acknowledge her on Mother's Day. Yes, I think it is wonderful that they are treated the same if they love & care for them.
The situation with me is that her Dad hasn't even been with her for 9 months. Yes they see eachother on her Dad's weekends but that is it.
I am upset. She is a friend & I have no clue why she would acknowlege her unless her Dad asked her to.Am I wrong to feel like this?
I know that my Ex did tell me once that since she doesn't have any children that his children would be his....What?
Does she not think that she has a Mom already? And what is going though this girlfriends mind?
I can only see if from my side so if anyone has any other insights, that would be great.