mother with 4 white kids and now pregnant with a black child

Meagan - posted on 10/12/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )

4

0

0

Im a24 yr old single mother with 4 handsome white boys. And now i am blessed with another pregnancy
With an african american child. I am am very happy about this but i do have questions reguarding this pregnancy and there after pregnancy factors. So who can help with my questions andconcerns thats would be nice i have had the same prego symptoms with all my other children but now i am have totally different symptoms then any other other pregnancy is that normal for a different race pregnancy.

MOST HELPFUL POSTS

Nene - posted on 10/14/2013

12

0

1

hey Meagan don't worry ppl and there dumb ass comments! some ppl just need to think before they just come off TLKING...so with that being said any woman would no that saying words like that the other is gonna take it the bad way just because it's coming off to HARD..BUT ANYWAYS I think it's not going to be very to hard to tell your others kids about the color of your new baby..I don't no how old your other kids are but if they ask you or even if they don't just try to set them down and let them no that all of you are the same and just because your sister/bro have a different color don't mean he/she is any different or better..we are all the same. the only different is when I had you guys I was with a white man..and when I had your new sis/bro I was with a black man(THATS IF YOU ARE OK WITH TELLING THEM THAT PART) then tell em no matter what don't ever be rude or judge someone of there color always have respect and love each other cuz we are a family for ever...I hope you like what I told you and hope it will help out..hit me up anytime we can become good friends if you like..

5 Comments

View replies by

Meagan - posted on 10/14/2013

4

0

0

Ok you have taken this whole thing the wrong way. Ur making it seem as though im acting. Like i am some person who is blaming my symptoms on a different race like i have problem with it.when in fact i just have questions based if its possible. Cuz with my other pregnancys there was not a difference thats is all. Then u take things to a whole nother level and bring my life as being a mother of multiple children that its a bad thing. So before u open ur mouth and judge people as u may think they are get ur story staright as u have not a clue as to what anyone has been through on this sight as a mother or how they became a mother. No one should have the right to judge and that includes you hun. So if u have nothing nice to say or something u may feel someone will be offened by than maybe u shouldnt. And to have u know my first child was from me being a rape victim and my other three children were from my marriage with all the same father and now been divoreced for two yrs now and now pregnant with another blessing from a relationship i was in that was great but became very emotionally and metally abusive and controling and i wouldnt stand for nor allow my children go through so i left so on that note take ur comments and cold bitterness else where . Where someone may actually care about ur rude comment .. and please dont comment back thanks

Perdeda - posted on 10/13/2013

8

0

1

Wow ummm just because a "black " knocked you up doesn't mean anything about a pregnancy the body reactions to pregnancy are different an honey your 24 with 5 kids not trying to be mean but ahhh I'd either close my legs or tie my tubs because that's just carelessness on your women an please teach your white children that just because there brothers skin is different color doesn't mean there better then him an that he is just as much there brother as the rest.

Meagan - posted on 10/13/2013

4

0

0

Thanks for the responds. Yes i crave more comfort foods than anything but with this pregnancy i get sick or feel nauseas when i eat and never did with my other kids and i am in more pain like all the time in my back. I am breaking out in acne and i have never experienced that either its like my hair and skin is producing more oils than it should. And i know they say every pregnancy is different but mine never were so that why i had the questions of my first statement. My concerns after are when my other children realize the difference between them and the new baby and have questions of whys how do i tell them where they understand.

Nene - posted on 10/12/2013

12

0

1

Iam 24 two and I only have one baby and she is 2 (black) but to be real with I don't think the race have anything to do with the different symptoms your hveing..I have a friend who have a mix baby and she is white..she told me she didt have anything go wrong when having the baby and when she was caring the baby things went good just like all her other kids..the only different was the foods she was eating as in hot HOT FOOD'S! THAT DIDT WORK WELL WITH HER...so I would ask are you eating a lot of different foods that you didt or couldt eat before?..

Join Circle of Moms

Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.

Join Circle of Moms