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Melinda - posted on 06/08/2016 ( 5 moms have responded )

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My kids father aunt has parent guardianship of my son I can only call him on Saturday she told me he was grounded and I ask why she won't tell me she says it's none of my concern them I get mad at her. If he isn't home on Saturdays when it's my night to call and he is staying the night at my mom's I'm not aloud to talk to him o have to wait till next Saturday.

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Michelle - posted on 06/11/2016

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If she isn't abiding by the court orders then you take her back for contempt.
The judge said that you get to have the children (and she is to decide on the day) and she isn't allowing you to have YOUR children.
Go back to court. We can't help you.

Dove - posted on 06/11/2016

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If you still have full custody you should be able to call and see your child whenever you want. It does not make any sense that a judge would say you still have full custody, but that the aunt picks when you can contact your child.

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Melinda - posted on 06/11/2016

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It doesn't say anything about Saturday the huge said to my kids dad aunt her name is Tammy that you pick the days that the mom can call and see him. So every Saturday is my day but I'm not aloud to have him in her words cause when he leaves me and goes back he gives attitude to get and says I want my mom I don't have to hear you. And now she is stopping the phone calls cause I missed to Saturday of calling him and I explained to her that I didn't have a phone at the time and I was homeless and she doesn't understand that. I do still have full custody of him the judge said and that I can have him back but o need a job and a place of my own which is understandable

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 06/09/2016

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Basic advice is to adhere to your orders. Do you have contact orders? If not, request some. If so, and she is not adhering to orders, turn her in for contempt.

However, I do have to say, based on your initial post, you may be handling things in a not so mature manner...and that could help.

Michelle - posted on 06/09/2016

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What does it say in the court orders about him being elsewhere on Saturdays? Maybe you should get those amended so that you can speak to him every Saturday.
If she has guardianship then it's up to her to discipline and I guess technically she doesn't have to let you know why.
Without knowing why you have lost custody it's very hard to give advice though.

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