Hunni - posted on 11/13/2014 ( 12 moms have responded )
Hello... me and boyfriend have been together for almost a year in Jan 2015!! He has younger children by 2 different women. Ages between 8-12 years old, 2 boys and 2 girls. He has stated that I am the only woman that he has considered ever meeting his children. I didn't believe that but I found out that it was true by his mother, best friend and 3 of his close acquaintances. (I have no need to not believe them) One of the moms I have met over the phone and she is awesome... we get along she is engaged to be married. All cool.. Now the last mother, she is a ummm piece of work. Always arguing and just confrontational. Now I understand that this is the most recent mother of his kids and they were together for awhile but it didn't work out. So we have decided to move in together because ...its what we wanted to do and we are planning on getting married either 2014 or 2015. Since I have not met the children and they will be here at the new place very often. Should I stay at my parents house for a few months until we ALL are better acquainted?? Or should I stay here with my man and just work it out?? We talked and decided that this would be best because it would be less pressure on the children. Dad has never introduced the kids to any woman. Please help. We are in love and I love him dearly.. I want to meet his children and THEIR MOTHERS....