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I am 22 years old have have a Daughter who will be four in May. Me and her Dad used to be together (quite young at the time) and we split up when i was only a few months pregnant.
When my daughter was three months old I start going out with my now boyfriend. We will be together four years in August. He is going to Australia for nine months. It is something I wanted to do but neven thought about it until he said. During the Christmas break I will go over with my Daughter for two weeks.
If things looked good over there, with a great school for her and a good job for me, I would consider coming back home until she finishes her first year in school and then moving over there with my boyfriend. If it comes to this how am I supposed to tell her Dad that this is what I want? I know i would be taking her away from him but I would also be taking her away from my own family.
At the moment him (when he is there) picks her up from school three times a week and spends around three hours on them days seeing her. She also stays up there every three weeks just overnight. I know its not as easy as saying just come over and visit or we can use Skype. Anyone ever in this position before? HELP!!