Shanice - posted on 09/28/2015 ( 23 moms have responded )
I have 4 children and I have a babyfather which is a father of 3 of my children. He is not the babyfather of my oldest child just the 3 small ones. My oldest son dislikes him very much they never get on they don't talk , they had 2 little scruffs when the first one the had a grab up with each other and the second one my babyfather put dragged my son to the ground. So now they do not talk at all. I also have a problem with him aswell now , but I am really in a difficult situation as I have twin babies & a 6 year old son as it is hard that's why my babyfather is still here. He goes out 7 days a week in the evening like 7/8 comes back 11/12 o clock and he makes excuse saying " His going to find food " Or " His going to play music " or " Am going to chill at my friends house " and I really want to know if his cheating and putting his personal life first over the babies he don't really like watching the babies he don't like when I go socialise with my family and all I do is go shopping I never socialise but it's alright for him to go socialise with his friends. My oldest son which is 17 wants him to leave the house but the situation is if he leaves it's going to be hard for me to watch the babies. Because usually my babyfather drops the 6 year old to school everymorning whilst I watch the babies so if he leaves who is going to drop my 6 year old to school ? But I really had enough and I really want to kick him out but when I do , I need ideas of who can help me with the twins because there only 10 months, so please share your ideas ?