Mum wants to come back after leaving her family

Dilesh - posted on 06/17/2016 ( 3 moms have responded )

6

0

2

I am a 32 old dad with 2 daughters (6 and 4). My wife decided to walk out in February 2016. For the past 1.5 our relationship was broken, no communication. She even did not want to take the kids out anywhere. I had to do everything. After 4 months of leaving, she has realised that she made the biggest mistake of her life and wants to come back. My love, trust and respect has all gone. How can I trust her again? She says that she has changed, she a better person now, that she will love her kids. I don't know what to do. Any help would be appreciated.

3 Comments

View replies by

CPVann - posted on 06/17/2016

3

0

0

Again, I would not easily let her back in to quickly. There are some other issues going on with her. You need to find out what that is and seek some kind of help for her. Does she suffer from depression? It seems like she might suffer from this. She needs help before you let her back in your life. You have to think about yourself and your children first.

Dilesh - posted on 06/17/2016

6

0

2

Sorry, I thing I left out, she apologied to me in March, and I got emotional and let her back in. By the 3rd day, she left again. She now wants to come back permanently.

CPVann - posted on 06/17/2016

3

0

0

Since the two of you do have children together, you should think about working something out with her. I would build a whole new relationship with her first. Just don't let her back in your heart and in the house too quickly. I would take baby steps first because you don't want the same thing to happen to you and your children again. Did you wife suffer from some kind of depression as to the reason she left the first time? If so, she probably needs more help in that area. You are definitely going to have to sit down and have a long talk with her. Yes, I do believe everyone deserves a second chance but just take it slowly. Do not jump back into this relationship with both feet. Take it one step at a time. She has to earn your respect and you will have to earn hers as well if you want this to work. Wishing you all the best. Stay positive that everything is going to work out for the best.

Join Circle of Moms

Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.

Join Circle of Moms