Denise - posted on 03/22/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
I am worried that I may be paranoid, but whenever I am over with my baby at my parents house, my ten year old brother usually tries to sneak a glimpse of her or outright stares at her while I'm changing her. I've started feel uncomfortable, I refuse to let him change her, and he'll even hide a little bit in the room so I won't notice him. Sometimes he'll be casually trying to make an excuse to walk by and then once he's there, he'll stare right at her being changed. It's gotten bad enough that when he comes in, I shield her from view and glare at him pointedly until he leaves. He also awkwardly and constantly mentions whenever she is naked, about to be naked, pooping, being changed, or being photographed in her baby fresh cuteness, naked. I've even described my baby as Boo from Monster's Inc because of her black hair and chubby white face, and he mentions to me, Yeah, I have a picture of Boo as my iPad background, because she's so cute. It freaked me out a little, considering my desktop background at his age was probably Pikachu from Pokémon. It worries me and my parents are the sort of people to just let things slide under the rug, he is their youngest and only son and very spoiled. We also do not discuss sex in my family, even in an educational sense with children. My sister and I kind of had to figure things out on our own, and ten years later, it seems like they haven't changed their parenting style in that regard much. For example, for simply posting this thread, for even voicing my concern, they would be horrified at my even thinking of it and even worse mentioning to other people. Please help me.