Tina - posted on 06/29/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )
He lost his Paw paw 2 1/2 years ago who is was very close to then about 2 months later we lost our home to a tornado. We were not home at the time but by the time we got home. It was really bad. It was like his whole world was destroyed! We had to go stay with my mother in law ( who we now stay with because she has Alztimers) and we do not want to put her in a nursing home. Be cause we promised. My father in law ( the paw paw that just past) that we would keep her at home and take care of her as long as we could. I own my own business, and we have a sitter that stays with my mother in law just about everyday. My husband helps me at the business some but he is disabled. And he also helps take care of my mother in law ( his mother).
But he problem is my son has got to where all he wants is me me me. His real dad gets him maybe once a month or when its covenant for him. My husband loves him like his own. He hates school, he always wants to argue with everyone, he thinks everyone hates him and everyone is against him. He sees his paw paw at nite some times. We told the Dr. about it. He sees a counselor every two weeks I drive one hour to get there. He goes to the ADHD Dr. In fact we were in their office when the house was destroyed. I as just at the end of my rope trying to comfort him. He has been in the Hospital twice because he has had these terrible fits to where no one could handle him, but they had to let him go because they said he was not a danger to no one. I have done the time out thing. I have spanked him. I have taken things away. I feel I have done it all. I have spent time with him. I closed my shop down to donate my time to him. I just do not know what else to do.