My 11 year olds new boyfriend!!!

Rosie - posted on 01/13/2014 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I'm very happy that my baby has a boyfriend and they really like each other but he (how do I say this)sexual and he's always showing it but that's how he is he really likes her but I don't think my daughter is ready for that so I told her what I think and she got mad and was saying all these hurtful things and I know that she just wants me to like him but its kinda hard and I know she didn't mean what she said but the its like alladin and jasmeen with them but how do I except this young man?????? P.S. this is her first real boyfriend and she wants to be with him :)

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Rosie - posted on 01/13/2014

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I get what your saying is right and he's a good kid and I just thinks the way he acts is not right so I'm going to talk to his parents about this thanks

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/13/2014

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If you're allowing your 11 yo to date, she needs to be prepared for the peer pressure of sex.

If her current interest is already taking things to a sexual level, and you are not comfortable with that, ultimately YOU are the parent. Look into the laws about sexual activity, and age of consent in your area. You'll find that, not only is she too young to be dating (realistically, look at this as a logical parent), she's definitely too young to consent to sexual actions.

Have an honest discussion with her about your concerns. Its fine that she likes boys, but if this one has not been taught sexually appropriate behaviour, I'd consider turning that over to CPS for investigation. 11 yo boys don't just show off their genitals, or speak sexually unless they've been groomed to do so. How do I know? I raised 2 young men, both of whom (at the ages of 16 & 20) are still virgins.

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