D - posted on 12/23/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
A little different than most. My 12 year old is going to school in France in a special school for gifted children. I would like her back home but the court likes the idea of her being in this school notwithstanding the fact that she is fluent in 3 languages. I have 50/50 in access and joint everything. My daughter just arrived last night for her XMAS break. She has been very angry since I last saw her at the beginning of November. I have sent her many messages of love. No response. I just learned tonight that she was sharing her room (since the beginning of November) with a 26 year old woman who was clearly not a student of the school... Against every rule. Guess what my thoughts are? I would have to go to court to get her out of there. Cost? She will hate me for this as it is an exclusive ballet school. No win. She won't explain her anger to me right now. Forget about talk with the other parent. I am ready to give up. Already went through parental alienation with my sons. They love me now. Go figure.