My 12 year old isn't a virgin

Ali - posted on 01/19/2015 ( 19 moms have responded )

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I found a tape in my daughters draw and it shows everything! I don't know if I should tell the boys mom or even my daughter that I know. She probably taped it to show her friends for popularity. She's in a bad group up at school! And the tape was at the public BOYS restroom at the park😰 what do I do I'm a bad mom!!!!!

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Michelle - posted on 01/22/2015

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Julia, if you have seen all of the posts from this woman as well as some others and then compared their "profiles" and children then you would know where we are coming from by calling troll.
I am a moderator here and Jodi has been before so we have seen them around for a while.
We don't stand for bullying on this site though but usually the trolls trip themselves up because they can't remember the lies they have been telling.

Jodi - posted on 01/21/2015

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Clearly you haven't read her other posts, Julia. Please don't judge until you have.

Jodi - posted on 01/20/2015

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Interesting that many of the names are the same as the children of some of the other trolls roaming around here lately. Someone is bored. ANd the funny thing is, the trolls have even said hi to each other "haven't seen you around for a while". LMAO.

Michelle - posted on 01/20/2015

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Just a bit of a hole in your story, who has tapes these days? Everything is digital.
I agree with the others, if all these things are true, your whole family needs serious help. If they aren't then YOU need serious help.

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Dove - posted on 01/22/2015

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Last time I looked at her profile she only had 5 or 6 kids...? Before I just looked, that is...

Julia - posted on 01/21/2015

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If you feel something isnt right about somebody and you tell them off or degrade makes you much worse than the person your talking about. I CAN NOT stand bullies. Grow up. Do not judge unless your helping that person up.

Julia - posted on 01/21/2015

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You have to take action or you would be a bad mom. She could get pregnant or worse, get an std that cld ruin the rest of her life. If she hates you for it be ok with that. As long as she's safe that's all that matters. Counciling is a great start but she is going to have to be watched all the time till you know above all measures she's ok. If she's engaging in sex at 12 that makes me a little concerned. Has she been molested in the past?

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/20/2015

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Wait...she's up to 8 now? Damn...I wish mine could have been born that quickly!

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/20/2015

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Ali, get some help. Your school counselors should be able to start you in the right direction.

I don't believe you're a parent, I don't believe that you're a NURSE, Basically...I don't believe any of your multiple strange posts.

Jodi - posted on 01/19/2015

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If you aren't a troll, Ali,l then your family needs some serious help. You have a suicidal 16 year old up a tree throwing a tantrum because he can't get an iPhone 6, a 12 year old having sex and recording it, a 5 year old shaving her head because dad can't get his shit together and put his razor away,and a 3 week old that won't feed. You can't see the pattern here?

Dove - posted on 01/19/2015

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What do you do? Wait til tomorrow and go back to school. Bored little kids should not have access to the internet on school breaks....

Raye - posted on 01/19/2015

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It doesn't mean you're a bad mom. What you do now will determine whether you are a good mom. You do need to (calmly) talk to your daughter and get her into counseling. She should not be having sex. She should not be having sex in public places. She should not be videotaping sex acts... this is child porn and could result in you getting arrested and her being sent to juvenile detention.

Ask her why she did those things. Ask her what she hoped would happen by consenting to these acts. Tell her that her actions prove she is not mature enough to have relationships with boys. Let her know that sex is not love. Sex will not make the boy or her friends respect her. Sex will not raise her self-worth, it will lower it. She will fight with you, but get her into counseling. She most likely needs more help that you can give.

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