Dawn - posted on 11/29/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )
I had been having an affair and my husband and son found out. I left the marital home for a few months and then moved in with my boyfriend (I am in my mid 40's and went out with him when I was in my 20's so I know him well). Since then we have had lots of problems with exs and my son would not talk to me. I have left my boyfriend before for a week to try and rekindle it with my son, but I ended up going back to my boyfriend. I was happy to be back, but sad as I did not have my son. My son lives with his dad (my husband). My husband is on his 2nd girlfriend and is happy and my son is happy with that. He feels my boyfriend split the family up. Two days ago my boyfriend told me to leave as he new I was unhappy as I was not seeing my son, he now regrets that and wants me back. He would marry me tomorrow if I was divorced. I want to be happy to in a relationship and wanted to know what you thought. Do you think I should sit down with my son and tell him I want to date my boyfriend & it will not rouine my relationship with him, save up for my own place have my son 50/50 and hopefully introduce my son to him? He was going to meet my boyfriend at one stage, but my husband put a stop to it, please help!