my 14 year old son is very loud his language is nasty and hurtfull,i have talked to him when he wants cuddles,he is like jeckle and hide.he has packed a small bag and walked out this morning,phoneing his big brother who has also kicked off the situation has got worse since i was diagnosed with an enlarged heart.its as though he is pushing me to the limit.he knows whats wrong with me,we have talked about it,but i dont think he seems as though he is ayyensions seeking,can anyone help me please


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Dove - posted on 08/26/2012




Granted, I don't know your son, but I'm willing to bet he DOES care about the diagnosis. Maybe he is scared for you? Add to that the 'normal' attitudes and troubles of a 14 year old and..... All I've got is good luck!!

Doreen - posted on 08/26/2012




thankyou,sometimes as a parent you feel as though its only you going through problems,i will take your advice.

Michelle - posted on 08/26/2012




To me he sounds like a typical teenager. Those hormones can be nasty.

I haven't get there yet with mine but maybe treat it like a toddler tantrum and don't react. If he wants to go let him, he'll soon come back when he either has no where to go or realizes that he's got it good at home. Sometimes we have to be cruel to be kind.

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