My 15 year old is out of control

Brandie - posted on 02/15/2015 ( 8 moms have responded )

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my 15 year old son smokes pot, talks back and swears all the time. Everything that comes out of his mouth is bad. He comes home when ever he feels like it. He yells at me like he is adult. I took everything away and did everything possible to punish him. I'm a single mom of 4 beautiful children and work 2 full time jobs. I need some advice I don't want him going down the wrong road. Thank u

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Victoria - posted on 02/18/2015

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I think you need to get him away from that man, he will probably lead him to worse things than marijuana. How old is this man? What's he like?

Jill - posted on 02/17/2015

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Jodi - posted on 02/16/2015

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Ok, that's more information and is now making more sense as to what is going on with him. Has he had counselling for it? How long have you been out of the situation?

Brandie - posted on 02/16/2015

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I suffer from domestic violence an yes he saw most of I went through with his father. I don't give him money. he hangs out with an older man. I ground him all the time I even called the cops on the man.

Jodi - posted on 02/16/2015

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And yet, I suppose he comes home to a meal that has been prepared for him, and a comfortable bed with a pillow, and a light in his room? Also, can I ask where he is getting the money to do as he pleases and smoke pot? Friends only accept freeloaders for a period of time, but they eventually get sick of it.

" He yells at me like he is adult."

This statement concerns me. Adults shouldn't be yelling at anyone either. This statement indicates to me that hit would be okay to yell at you if he were an adult and an equal. Well, it isn't. So is this behaviour he sees? Other adults yelling at you?

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