Kelli - posted on 12/28/2014 ( 10 moms have responded )
I have recently found out my son is having sex with a girl who has had 13 sex partners. She's not the kind of girl I wanted him to be sexually active with .... She's ride when she comes over and doesn't even acknowledge my existence. She know now that I know what's going on. Should I have a talk with her? My husband and I are clearly not on the same page. He says I'm pushing our son away by confronting him, telling him he can NOT have her at my house having sex.... And that they are going to find a way to do it wherever they can. I have tons of concerns and questions on what the best steps to take are. Like, should I contact her parents and let them know? Or will this cause more issues because my son will find out I tipped them off..... He already thinks I'm too involved. I know that 16 year olds want to have sex.... But I don't like it.... I'm worried about pregnancy, diseases etc. Also my 14 year old daughter is exposed to all of our family fights about this whole situation..... Would appreciate any advice.... This is tearing me up inside. Thank you ladies.