My 17yr son got his girlfriend pregnant

Cathy - posted on 10/19/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )

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My 17 yr son got his 19 girlfriend pregnant she is keeping it he is upset but has since excepted that he is going to be a dad. I'm upset for him but also with time I've come to except it but my worry is that I want him to get a DNA test just to be sure they have only dated 9 months I don't want to cause a problem but I want to be sure can anyone help

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Anaquita - posted on 10/19/2012

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Talk to them, honestly, about your concerns, in the least condemning way you can manage. Let them know it's for your own peace of mind. Point out that if they split someday, and she files for child support, it will back up her claim, and perhaps offer to pay for it.

Anaquita - posted on 10/19/2012

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Talk to them, honestly, about your concerns, in the least condemning way you can manage. Let them know it's for your own peace of mind. Point out that if they split someday, and she files for child support, it will back up her claim, and perhaps offer to pay for it.

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Ariana - posted on 10/19/2012

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That is pretty... well pretty disrespectful I think. If he decides he wants to have a DNA test, that's his business, and he can bring it up for himself. I hate how the girls in these situations always take the flack of 'it might not even be his kid' BS. If a problem comes up later deal with it and have your son get a test, but right now is really not the time.



There is pretty much no way you can bring it up without causing a problem. Getting your son ready to be a father is what you should focus on for right now.

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