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My daughter is 18 she has been with her boyfriend for one year. About 8 months ago I told her that he could not spend the night here. So she started spending almost all of the time at his home with his family. Then about 2 months ago she told me she was pregnant. I wanted her to come back home before she told me she was pregnant. Now that she is pregnant I want her home more than ever. Her room is still the way she left it (well not exactly I cleaned it !) I am supporting her as far as going to doctor appointments .I have started buying baby supplies. Clothes ect. I just want her to come home but she wants to be with her boyfriend and he wants to be with his family. His mother smokes cigarette in the house. I have now told him that he can come here to stay now that she is pregnant. My daughter is starting to get mad at me. I don't know what to do. Maybe I'm overreacting but my daughter is only 18 well she will be 19 in a few days .but she is still my baby. And my grandchild I want him or her to be here . Any words of wisdom? Thanks for listening.