Delilah - posted on 05/17/2016 ( 12 moms have responded )
Let me begin by saying that I love my son dearly (most of the time) and I also want the very best for him. I recently moved to Texas from NY and my son stayed there with my sister because he did not want to move with me. He comes home whenever he wants, smokes weed, no longer in school and just does what he wants. I thought he would actually get better after I left him with my sister because he wouldn’t have me to lean on and would need to be more responsible for himself. Goshhh I was wrong. He did not listen to her at all and did more of what he wanted because I was not around to try and stop him. He recently got kicked out of her place, he went to live with his dad and he is about to get kicked out of that place too because his dad asked him to not stay out and gave him a 2am curfew. Which he has already violated twice this week and he has only been living there a week. I speak to him a lot and we communicate well most of the time. He is also slightly depressed because he says nobody wants him and they (family) want him to not be a teenager and have all these rules. I was ready to move back to NY to help support and guide him, but I am also afraid he will only do more of the same when he is with me. I don’t know what to do?!!!!!! I get a phone call a few times a day, i am stressed, cry a lot because there is always a complaint about him. The situation with my son is controlling how I live my life.