Patricia - posted on 11/05/2013 ( 5 moms have responded )
A VERY long story short, my two sons (24 and 23) and boyfriend (38) don't get along. They have stopped talking to each other for the last 1-2 months. My two sons and daughter (21) spoke to me about 3 months ago telling how they don't like him and a bunch of other stuff relating to how i "spoil" him and how he inconveniences my 2 sons. My eldest seems to be leading the charge although my youngest is neutral and friendly.
It seems my two sons are going to move out any day if i basically don't tell him to leave. my 2 sons have the means to just make it on their own and my boyfriend has no financial worries. I've been with my boyfriend for about 5 years and hes lived in my basement (pays rent) for the last 3 years.
I don't know what to do. my home has become so tense and its so devastating to see. i feel that any day a big fight will break out between them, physically. i wish i could provide so much more detail but there is just so much to tell.