Connie - posted on 02/08/2016 ( 5 moms have responded )
My son stays up all night playing video games and smoking pot. He barely makes it out of bed in time to make it to work by 1:00pm. He gets off work at 9:00 pm and repeats the pattern...goes out all night partying & gaming. He does not clean up after himself leaving dishes, glasses, fast food bags all over his room, laundry piled up. He refuses to help with any other household chores and responsibilities. I have given him a list of rules and expectations. I kicked him out for a week about a year ago. When he came back things were better for a short while before he fell back into his old ways. Friends advise me to kick him out again but I'm struggling with that because he tells me he wants to save $$ for a specialized computer programming school in Denver Co. If I kick him out I'm afraid he won't end up going and spiral downward even more.
Any suggestions or advice?