Giselle - posted on 03/08/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )
My 3 yr old is holding in his poops and I don't know what to do. He will hold it for a week and when he finally does go it hurts him and he cries, thus creating a vicious circle of no pooping and crying! We try to explain to him that the more he poops the less it will hurt but that hasn't helped. I know he's not constipated because I can see him doing a little "no poop" dance when he has to go. I've tried prune juice and puree, lots of fruit, he drinks lots of fluids and is not constipated but just wont poop. Also tried tummy massage to help loosen and get things moving and that seemed to help only on one occasion.
I think it all started when we started potty training. My husband put too much pressure on him to go on the potty and now he just refuses. We've stopped potty training because he obviously isn't ready. There has been no pressure to go on the potty for a month now but he still wont poop.
I know that coffee works for adults but do you think it's ok to give my son just a small (very very small) cup? I'm out of ideas and can't stand to see him in pain.