My 30 year old daughter is so mean to me and i dont know why

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Michelle - posted on 01/10/2016

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You have done something, you did everything for her and have raised an adult that thinks she is owed everything.
Yes, she's going to be angry because all of a sudden you won't bow to her wants. Basically, she's a spoiled brat and needs to learn to do things for herself by working for them.
Sorry if that's harsh but it's the truth.

Jenny - posted on 01/09/2016

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I never heard of it in ohio but i will find it thank you i could usr all the help i can get thank you and happy new year

Carmen - posted on 01/09/2016

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Jenny - posted on 01/07/2016

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She wont tell me ive asked and it becomes a fight idk i feel so alone i have no parents grandparents sisters brothers cuzins nobody but im strong ill get bu. Tu

Joann - posted on 01/06/2016

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I'm so sorry you are going through that with your daughter. Have you ever asked he why she so mean to you? And it's wrong that she's not letting you see your grandson. Pray on it and ask god to help you through this. I hope and pray that your daughter comes around and let you be in both of there lives.

Jenny - posted on 01/06/2016

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Yes ive told her that but not her son lol i tryed to be the best mom i could but got to stop shes making me sick been in hospital 7 times in 6 years stress its killing me thank you

Nell - posted on 01/06/2016

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I feel you and its hard but that she does you that way. she will see this again with her kids.

Jenny - posted on 01/06/2016

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Yes i do. But im on disability so money a problem ive had him when shes been in jail 3 times was the first to hold him when he was born he has his own room in my home. He will get older and then he will be with his grandma and papa i hate to say it but shes just evil s nd i pray he dont turn out like that thank u so much for your advice and im going to do what u say until she can say shes sorry and show me respect shes done and im going to look into grand parent rights im sure they have them here in ohio ty again

Jodi - posted on 01/06/2016

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Do you live somewhere with grandparent rights laws? Where I live, as a grandparent, you can actually file for visitation, and unless the parent demonstrates you are harm to the child, a grandparent can get rights - it has become like this because keeping children away from grandparents like pawns is not in their best interests. It is important for children to know their families.

Jenny - posted on 01/06/2016

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Thank u i just miss my grandson so much it hurts i know your rt i just love him with all my heart but i just got to give it to god and hope for the best thank you

Jodi - posted on 01/06/2016

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See, there is your problem - you do everything you can for them. She needs to learn that she can't treat people like shit and still expect them to run around after her. It sounds like this is something she has done for quite sometime and you have conditioned her into treating you like this. Just let her know that you won't be spoken to in that way and until she can apologise and be respectful when she speaks to you, then you have no intention of doing anything for her.

Jenny - posted on 01/06/2016

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Shes been like this for 15 yrs more so now that she has a son she can hold over me shes a x harion addict and when she got preanet i keep her under my wing and got her off it ive try so hard to get along with her just for my grandson but im hate to say if i have to give him up and not see him cuz of her i will i just cant do this i was a single mom until she was 8 she loves her step dad and would never disrespect him ?? I do everything i can for them

Jodi - posted on 01/06/2016

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Has she always been like this, or it is a recent thing? Or is it because usually you do what she wants, but now you don't so now she's started being mean?

Jenny - posted on 01/06/2016

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No shes just mean one day shes i love u the next i hate u and omg i cant even replete some of the things she says if i cant give her money or cant do what she wants me to do i get it ive been in hospital and cant do what she wants so im a well i cant post it she tells me that she hopes my husband brings me a std that i will die from me and him have been married for 22 yrs he dont cheet ever im a cunt she hopes i die but when she needs a sitter guess who she calls no i have been going through this for years i try to get along with her my son is the the best son ever im not the only one she takes her anger out on but the num one

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