My 32yr daughter will not let me see my granddaughter.

Lorina - posted on 10/05/2016 ( 8 moms have responded )

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Hi, l am a mother of three children 32, 25, 19. And a grandmother of a very precious pretty granddaughter. My 32yr daughter will not let me see my Natalia. Due to a fight we had in the beginning of September. It was so sad, and still hurting about it. She has threatened me if the CPS gets involved with her and granddaughter that I will never see her again. What is sad is my granddaughter told her school councillor about the abuse. And now there is more hate and anger with my 32yr daughter. She has text me that I am no longer aloud to see or be with Natalia. That she would call the police or get a restraining order. I know this is hurting Natalia. I am her Nana since she was born. My Natalia is already 9yrs old. I've been her second mom since she was born. Last month Natalia ran away cuz of others neighboe kids bulling her. And she was afraid to tell my daughter thinking she would hit her. I feel hopeless, and scared for my Natalia. I miss Natalia so much. This the second this happens. What do I do. I can not stop crying.

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Roberta - posted on 10/06/2016

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My heart goes out to you! I couldn't imagine having a precious little granddaughter that I was not able to see and protect. I pray God will protect that little one and shed his grace by changing your daughter's attitude toward you and your granddaughter. It sounds as though your daughter has some anger management issues. Perhaps you can have one of your other daughter's speak to her. Suggest she speak with a Dr. or counselor. Maybe you can offer her your assistance with your granddaughter. I don't know too many mom's that will turn down childcare assistance. Please keep us posted. I will be praying with and for you.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 10/05/2016

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If the child is being abused by her mother, you need to get cps involved. Of course your daughter would be upset by the possibility, because she could be prosecuted for child abuse! You may be able to have your granddaughter placed in your care if abuse is found.

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Lorina - posted on 10/08/2016

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Michelle I may give you the story of my life. But it would take 6mon to year to figure out what happened or why. I'm a 51yr single mother and grandmother raising gods children that I'm blessed. Love them so much , forever. I just feel Lisa 32yr daughter with her anger/attitude issues will keep her from realize what god has blessed her with since the day she was born and it will be to late.. See, Michelle I'm a Cancer patient since 2004, 2012 and now my oncologists found a mass in my right lung. Back in March 2016. Two time survivor now going on three. I'm a fighter, gone through a lot, broken ribs, left ankle, and others. My children/ especially natalia and god has been keeping me alive. Drs say I'm older now, a 50-50 chance. So, yeah. Tested again this july still there but not moved or spread upward yet. My Natalia still needs me and I need her too. She calls me "Momma Odie" since she was a toddler. A Disney character. Guess who it is? But most of time is Mom or grandma or Nana. She is 9yrs now beautiful little granddaughter just like my daughter. Yes Michelle I have been staying away from Lisa and maybe she will calm down her anger and hate. Dnk, but can not stay away from Natalia she is only a child and she needs to be heard. CPS is scars here not enough case workers or there are too many cases they can not keep up. Dnk. But I will clime mountains for Natalia. Just like i did for my daughters and son. Even if i go to jail everytime Natalia wants to be with me. We just know Lisa is not the victim... It hurts to see my young adults take life for granted, sometimes. Right now I'm trying to keep strong and limit the pain. Thank you Michelle.

Michelle - posted on 10/08/2016

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What grounds is she going to use to get the restraining order? You aren't a threat nor are you harassing them.
You need to make sure CPS take you seriously.
What was the fight even about?
Maybe you need to back off for a bit and let her cool down. The more you are pushing at the moment the worse you are making things.

Lorina - posted on 10/07/2016

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Thank you for your prayers. I'm trying not to cry, and fall apart. Hoping and praying that CPS has review the case again due to the is the second time the CPS has been involved. I wish my daughter would get some kind of counciling or parenting classes for her to learn and understand and how to discipline a child with ADHD, dyslexia. But my daughter refuses to take my advice as her mother. I to have a child with learning disability. My son is now 25yrs and he is doing wonderful in his life now. But with parenting classes, alot patients, love, and care. Verbal or physical abuse or taking your frustration out with my granddaughter and me. Yes my son and my younger daughter are very upsad of the situation. Also mydaughter texted me that I'm no longer aloud to be near or be in their life ( Natalias and my daughters). If I go near them she will get a restraining order. She does not want me to go to Natalia school, and I can not text or call Natalia. And if I do she will call high authority. Really,....Momma Odie is confused- hurt ing, we are not the ones that are out of control. Nothing will stop our love for Natalia. How can she do that to Natalia and me, us....

Lorina - posted on 10/07/2016

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Thanks for your prayers. I will try not to cry too much. I just feel hopeless.

Lorina - posted on 10/05/2016

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My 19yr daughter said that cps didn't find anything wrong because Natalia had to lie to CP's cuz she was afraid she was going to lose her and that she was afraid of getting hurt again. My Natalia was diagnosed with ADHD and dyslexia, learning disability. And she has been having problems with reading and math. But her anixity has been scares lately too. I just wish my daughter would take some parenting classes that's would help understand Natalia's behavior and her dyslexia. My 19yr told me that she would bring Natalia during the weekend so we can be together, cuz Natalia cries to be with me. But we are not say anything. Do not understand why CPS did not see the bruises on her leg and back. What upsads me that Natalia had run away last month and I was not told til later in the month. Natalia is afraid to talk about it.

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