Ashley Rene - posted on 01/25/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
I have a 19yo step daughter but shes like a real daughter to me. my daughter always told me she wanted a sister or brother since she was 6yo. When she was 14 or 15 i got pregnant with her half sister and she was so excited. when her sister was born she was very helpful. she will help feed her, clothe her and bath her with me. Her and her sister was extremely close. her sister always looked up to her. Well when my youngest daughter was 3 her sister was off to college. the day when she was supposed to leave my 3yo was crying and screaming and wouldn't let her go. Few hours later she calm down and later she got used to it.
My oldest daughter was very busy her first year of college. She had school, sports, and a job so we didn't see her for a year but we always kept contacted.
Well about 2 or 3 weeks ago my 19yo came down and surprised us. she said she was staying for 2 weeks. all of us was so excited especially her sister. they hang out everyday. Well about four days ago my daughter went back for college. and my 4yo now had the same fit but the only difference is she been acting out now. she was never like this the first time her sister left. she will talk back and hit me and her father, throw things and scream. I never believed in spanking your child but I am VERY close to doing to and my husband don't believe in hitting girls so he wont do it. My oldest daughter will call or facetime us when she can and her sister will be fine for a few Hours but then she go right back at it. she wont listen to me or her father. and she was never liked this before not even when her sister left the first time. We are at our wits end with her and we don't know what to do . Moms I need help FAST.