Jennifer - posted on 10/09/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
My daughter is 4 years old, she is in school and beides a few problems at school with other children, her techer says that she is an amazing kid, she listens, cleans up, helps out, gets along with all the other kiddies. so she is a great kid at school, and for family members. So they say anyways but part of me thinks they just dont want to tell me that she was bad or something while with them.
AT HOME, She refuses to clean her room, she trys to run around like she owns our house, she has these fits that I cant even explain, she has this habbit of screaming bloody murder when she has to clean, anything Me or her dad ask her to do she says she doesnt know how, she cant do it... She has lost all her toys and now has nothing in her room except for her bed and dressor. when she asked me a question and I dont answer her right away, will repeat herself 100 times until I finally I lose it, when Im talking to her and explaining to her why she is in trouble it just doesnt register almost, and she laughs at me... I am very stressed out and have no idea what to do anymore. We have went and talked to ppl and they all say there is nothing wrong with her behavor .
last time we took her toys out of her room she just kept saying i dont need these toys, i dont like them.
she takes me to this level of anger I have never felt before, and I am starting to scare myself because of it. My husband comes home from work and I cry to him. becasue it doesnt matter what I do she is negative toward me and its almost like refuses to have fun at all. when I say no to her she keeps going and going and going, asking why or telling me that wants it.
no punishment works.
PLEASE SOMEONE GIVE ME ADVICE OR SOMETHING PLEASE!!!!!