My 4 year old does not want to win

Divya - posted on 12/20/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )

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Hi moms,

My 4.5 year old dd is very vocal and active girl. She has incredible vocabulary and is normal active kid , makes friends easily and gets along well. She is very shy in school and scared of answering to teacher where she has to speak loudly. She does not like if anyone appreciates her or claps for her. She starts to cry as if she does not want any attention or all eyes on her. Other than that she is very bright and intelligent , a chatterbox at home .The issue is that she does not want to win either. We were playing chutes and ladders and I was losing n she was winning. She started to cry I don't want to win. She manipulated and moved her turn so that she does not climb the ladder . Still She won and got very upset and not ready to touch the game ever .she says I don't like to win. We tried talking to her but no luck . Has anyone else gone through such situation or any advice is much appreciated . Thanks in advance

Divya

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