Miina - posted on 06/03/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
my ex who used to asult me while i was pregnant with my son then my daughter has been in contact and wants to see his son n but not sure whether he wants to see his daughter! I tried to allow him to contact his son via skype and phone. he made my son feel special but he keeps calling to speak to me and tell me how much he loves me n wants me back. when i remind him of the terrible things he use to do to me he would belittle my pain n suffering, he would say "if i really wanted to punch you believe me you would not be alive right now". The violence would usually occur because i would ask him to help with his son!
He also calls me every hour on the hour to speak to me n not the children. he stopped contacting my son because my phone was busy and he said" i was chatting to other men"
I tried to make my son forget about him but he keeps saying "i have a daddy like all my friends in the nursery" he draws pictures of him and his dad all the time!
I am sure i made the right decision until i hear my son say how much he loves his dad who has never been there his nearly 4yrs old and his probably seen him a sum of 8weeks here n there
please give me advice as i just want to do the right thing for my son