RJ - posted on 12/20/2010 ( 8 moms have responded )
I would so love your input Mom's. I am divorced going on three years. My last BF was a very kind man of one year. He was very kid friendly, very affectionate and my daughter loved him. We broke up and she was very very sad. She has been talking about him a lot lately and telling my current BF of 8 months that she likes my past BF more than him. We have every other weekend with her. This past friday, we went out for ice cream, had a great time and then she mentioned again how she liked my other BF more than this one. But the kicker was this Sunday. We had a fabulous day. We stayed at his house, woke up and she and I made cookies all day, then I made us dinner, and we all went to the local zoo for Christmast lights. She said she had a blast. Then when we got back to his house, she was bouncy and happy, and then they were in teh living room, I was in the kitchen.. and she wanted to watch something that she didn't get, and then she said to him..., "you don't care about my mom" This really bothered him. He is very concerned that she would say such a mature thing at such a young age and feels she may be carrying something very heavy in her heart. I am totally lost, not knowing how to handle this. Please share you thoughts, ideas, experiences.