My 9 year old daughter all of sudden very attached to me worried when

Natalie - posted on 07/19/2016 ( 7 moms have responded )

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My daughter started going through a phase that she doesn't want me alone with my husband her stepdad, since she was 3. She says she knows what we are doing kids at school tell her. She doesn't want my door locked in the bathrrom, yes I am in their alone.lol but it is serious it is making her sick to her stomach like she is worried and consuming her mself doesn't want to leave my site because of what she heard that parents do. Sex.

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Natalie - posted on 07/19/2016

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My nephew had same issue. He would get all upset and say he is worried that his mom and my brother would lay naked. I told her all adults do it sometime and it's ok she said it doesn't bother her for other people just me cause I am her mom. Same thing with alcohol everyone can have a glass of wine at a party but me cause I am her mom.

Natalie - posted on 07/19/2016

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I am glad you told me that. I told her that all adults do sometimes she says its ok for everyone but me because I am her mom.

Dove - posted on 07/19/2016

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Counseling might be an excellent idea for her.

I don't know... I've got two girls that have known about sex since around 8.5 (from me... not other kids) and in 14.5 years as their mother I've never experienced this kind of reaction. Of course, I've also been single since they were 6, so they know I'm not having sex... lol But they knew that I used to have sex w/ their father and that he has sex w/ his current wife and it's never been a problem.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 07/19/2016

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Maybe ask her what her friends actually told her. It could be very scary since they may not know the truth. Have HER talk about it to you then.

Natalie - posted on 07/19/2016

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I did I told her its a beautiful thing for married people. Its not gross. She does not want to hear it covers her ears. She is at the age where it is super gross didn't help kids at school talk about it and I told them since they were young babies come from god. When you get married he puts them in your belly. At 3 and 4 felt that was best way to explain but now is different of course. I just hope this is a phase and will pass I beg her to talk to me when she is upset or following me around the house but she won't until I am so frustrated and worried and her I am hysterical.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 07/19/2016

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Ok, well talk with her frankly about love, sex, and her body and how she will hit puberty soon. Also, maybe get her into counseling.

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