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His birth father has never been part of our lives nor has he helped us in any ways. He has only made a few phone calls being drunk. l have told my son the reason why l have decided to keep him away from us when l found out l was pregnant. I `ve never spoken about this man in an offensive way to my son, but l `ve managed to tell him that he had refused to give my son his surname so as to avoid paying or giving any money. I have never wanted any of that, actually i managed to be a single mom who never needed that kind of help as l have my own job. But the birth father has never even tried to talk to a lawyer or fight for his son in any way .
What shall l do?