My 9 yrs old is behaving badly and rude.

Mar - posted on 08/11/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )




My 9 yrs old girl use to be a lovely girl but sence a yr ago she change...she is good sometimes but other times when I asked to do something she would go mad an go up step and slap the door and fist her hand and roll her eyes and be rude to me ...she behave like this no just to me but to some other adults too, I don't know what to do anymore...pls help


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Dove - posted on 08/11/2014




Now is a prime time for her hormones to start going wacky. It's not an excuse for the behavior, but it can help you understand where it 'might' be coming from.

Stay firm and consistent in what behaviors you will and will not allow and the consequences for those behaviors... and also add in some extra patience and understanding. Hang in there! My oldest is almost 13 and it's a very bumpy ride at times. ♥

Jackie - posted on 08/11/2014




Hello Mar,

Has she gotten her monthly visitor yet? That is when I saw the big attitude change in my daughter she was a little older though. You might want to consider just keeping note if it seems worse during a certain week of the month. Also, have you tried asking her if there is something bothering her? If she doesn't talk to you then i would probably go into detective mom mode. Good Luck!

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