Shari - posted on 11/20/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )
My almost 13 yr old son breaking my heart! Angry, nasty, doesn't listen at all..being inappropriate on phone with girls and disrespecting them..curses constantly and argues and complains about everything!!! Plus he was a straight A student and now he's a C -D student..I am so sad and fixated on his behavior. He was not popular or had a lot of friends when he was younger so my husband and I overcompensated with "things" and he got away with things my 15 yr old daughter would not have. It does not help that she "hates" him and that kills me too. I started therapy with him about a month ago or so but nothing has changed. I really feel that I am at risk for a serious health problem like a heart attack. I am so stressed and sad..not sure what else to do. Crazy thing is that after he blows up, runs in his room, slams door he will reemerge 10 min later like nothing happened. FYI he also suffers with tics and some OCD... HELP!
P.S. Phone and privileges have been taken away even though therapist said to give back in increments but then he just says or does something else and he'll get phone (for instance) taken away again..